UPDATE: Since no one seems interested to do the meme (or lack any ideas as to what are the answers), I'll close it by giving the answers...

Thanks to those who participated (and the few other(s) that tried but couldn't find anything )

===== Final Score====
~zymcka -- 9 pts
~Lonepaw -- 7pts
~TheProfane -- 6 pts

1st place gets... Free advice she'll never listen too anyway...
2nd place gets a slap on the face and a kick in the ass...
3rd place gets what she wants... the day she finds what it is...

Thanx again. Will try and make another easier one next time...

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Got bored... Decided to do a meme... will understand if no one cares: memes get a lot of hate so...

LYRICS MEME BY... well me obviously...
1- Find lyrics in songs you like for whatever reason (you can specify if you want to or give hints)
2- NO GOOGLE OR OTHER SEARCH ENGINE! Work you head off a bit, and be glad you've got one
3- Note me when you think you've got an answer. I'll update as often as I can (which should be all the time)
4- You get 1 point for finding the song title or band, 3 points if you find both. Winner will get something... prolly a kiss or a hug whatever...

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1- Come on people now, Smile on your brother, Everybody get together/
Try to love one another, Right now

Hint: Unless I'm mistaken, I think this one's a cover... I'm looking for the "newest" one. From the 90's

Answer was: Territorial Pissing - Nirvana

SOLVED
2- Anar'alah, Anar'alah belore, Sin'dorei/
Shindu fallah na, Sin'dorei

Hint: Should be easy. Instead of the band, I'll settle for "where it comes from/where you can hear it"

--Found by ~Lonepaw. - Lament of the Highborne from World of Warcraft. 3pts--

3- Wished we both had all the choices/That your heart may no longer know [...]
I've been waiting for someone like you/But now you are slipping away

Hint: Love that song...

Answer was: What have you done? - Within Temptation

4- So many dreams were broken and so much was sacrificed/
Was it worth the ones we loved and had to leave behind?/
So many years have past, who are the noble and the wise?/
Will all our sins be justified?

Hint: Band I discovered about 2 years ago... good stuff. Sounds like Evanescence without the lame-ass moaning/crying of Amy Lee

Answer was: Hand of Sorrow - Within Temptation

SOLVED
5- It took a moment before I lost myself in here/
It took a moment and I could not be found?/
Again and again and again and again I see your face in everything/
It took a moment the moment it could not be found?

Hint: Great lyrics... going nowhere in kind of a weird way... The singer's great though it think he's better at his other job...

--Found by ~zymcka. Echelon - 30 seconds to Mars. 3pts--

6- It's in my hands/The sky, so bright
It's burning, It's for me to decide/
If flames will reach heaven tonight/
It's in my hands

Hint: Something to do with fire it seems...

Answer was: Crawl through knives - In Flames

7- Find time and play with innocence
Like you ever would
I don’t see you make any sense
I guess you deliver misery just like you should

9 o’clock and you paint the skies grey
It isn't your fault we’re the ones who betray
But how can you say it with such ease?
You want to take a stand or just wanna please?

[CENSORED... WOULD BE TOO EASY, TITLE GOES HERE]
But you make me understand.
The evil that men do.
The evil that men do..

Hint:... fire? Is it really fire or something else? Btw those are the integral lyrics of the song... it's very instrumental... Which is quite unusual for that band

Answer was: Your bedtime story is scaring everyone - In Flames

8- Smother Another Failure
[CENSORED... TOO CLOSE TO THE TITLE]
Console Yourself,
You're Better Alone,
Destroy Yourself,
See Who Gives A Fuck.

Hint: Self explanatory... Piece of advice, if you're looking for a "new age" band/singer, you're looking the wrong way...

Answer was: Laid to rest - Lamb of God

BAND FOUND
9- Living just isn't hard enough/
Burn me alive, inside/
Living my life's not hard enough/
Take everything away

Hint: Had that CD on repeat in my car for about 6 month... maybe even more... Note: My car "died" 5 years ago...

--Band found by ~Lonepaw. Disturbed 1pt--

Answer was: Prayer - Disturbed

SOLVED
10- Pink cards and flowers on your window,
Your friends all plead for you to stay.
Sometimes beginnings aren't so simple.
Sometimes goodbye's the only way.

Hint: That band's monogram's the same as my real-life initials... Name's Louis for those that didn't know...

--Found by ~zymcka. Shadow of the day - Linkin Park. 3pts --

11- This is the last time I'll abandon you
And this is the last time I'll forget you
I wish I could

Hint: Band I thought I got into when they released their first CD... only to find they had released 2 albums before that. /golfclap. They sound very Brit. but are in fact Americans

Answer was: Stockholm Syndrome - Muse

12- I stand on the brink of your mind
Living inside a nightmare from which
I just cannot awaken
Stand on the edge of your life
Just give me another moment
From which I will never awaken

Hint: That CD must have scratches on it for playing soooo freakin' much... Used to wire my "Panasonic Shockwave" (first gen... with a big - zomg - 3 sec antishock) to my car radio... Sucks not to have a built-in CD player... That's what happen when you drive a '91 Sonata...

Answer was: Mistress - Disturbed

13- I fear I will never, never find anyone
I know my greatest pain is, is yet to come
Will we find each other in the dark
My long lost love
Oh, do you care,
I still feel for you
Oh, so aware,
What should be lost is there

Hint: Too bad they changed their singer...

Answer was: Beauty of the Beast - Nightwish

SOLVED
14- First day of love never comes back
A passionate hour`s never a wasted one
The violin, the poet`s hand,
Every thawing heart plays your theme with care

Hint: ... thought the new one isn't that bad either... even though she doesn't sing in this one and leaves it to the guys.

Found by ~zymcka. While your lips are still red - Nightwish. 3pts--

15- Take me/Cure me/Kill me/Bring me home
Every way/Every day/Just another loop in the hangman`s noose [...]
My fall will be for you/My love will be in you
You were the one to cut me/So I`ll bleed forever

Hint: Sometimes I can't see the link between the title of a song and the lyrics... Like in this one... What a voice she's got...

Answer was: Ghost Love Score - Nightwish

SOLVED
16- I would tell you/ That I loved you
If I thought that you would stay/But I know that it's no use
That you've already/Gone away

Hint: *sigh* Easy... well at least for one person...

--Found by ~TheProfane. Boys don't cry - The Cure. 3pts --

17- But I know just what it feels like/To have a voice in the back of my head
It's like a face that I hold inside
A face that awakes when I close my eyes
A face watches every time I lie
A face that laughs every time I fall

Hint: Was made into an AMV with scenes from different Final Fantasy games... Man did it kick ass

Answer was: Papercut - Linkin Park

SOLVED
18- Would things have changed if I could've stayed?
Would you have loved me either way?
Dressed to the blues
Day to day with my collar up.

Hint: Great band I discovered about 2 years ago... I wonder how heavy the singer's hair are... I'd say about a ton.

--Found by ~TheProfane. The Suffering - Coheed and Cambria. 3 pts --

19- I dream about, how it's going to end/Approaching me quickly,
Leaving a life of fear/I only want my mind to be clear[...]
Help me, comfort me,
Stop me from feeling what I'm feeling now,
The rope is here/Now I'll find a use,
I'll kill myself/I'll put my head in a noose

Hint: Australian band... They used to be big. A bunch of teens that dropped out of school for the love of music. And they did well.

Answer was: Suicidal Dream - Silverchair

SOLVED
20 - [...]It's the only thing that slowly stops the ache
But it's made of all the things I have to take
Jesus, it never ends, it works it's way inside
If the pain goes on, I'M NOT GONNA MAKE IT!

Hint: How come I can think of at least 10 bands of three musicians that do as much/more noise then them? Meh, great song nonetheless....

--Found by ~Lonepaw. Duality - Slipknot 3pts--

===== Final Score====
~zymcka -- 9 pts
~Lonepaw -- 7pts
~TheProfane -- 6 pts